1. Go to a Music Festival.
See your favourite bands play live;
experience the atmosphere, the fashions and the micro-culture of life in
a large field with a crowd of people all there to enjoy the experience.
2. Buy Dinner for Your Parents.
Your parents may have been been funding your
life for years, so now you can experience the joy of repaying their
kindness, love, and responsibility, and of developing an adult
relationship with them. Taking them out for dinner, and picking up the
bill, is one of the ways of doing this.
3. Travel to Another Continent
Travelling, with the exposure to different
climes, cultures, and peoples, broadens the mind, helps develop life
skills, and makes for more open attitudes and tolerance. However
open-minded you are, there’s nothing like experiencing a different way
of life firsthand. It also furnishes you with some great dinner party
stories!
4. Try an Adrenaline Sport.
You could try sky diving, white water rafting
or bungee jumping. Pushing your comfort zone and trying something like
this may terrify you, but you’ll feel immensely proud of overcoming your
fear.
5. Spend the Whole Weekend Partying.
Doing an “all weekender” can be more difficult as you get older and have more responsibilities—it’s a great experience to try!
6. Have a Good Conversation with Someone of a Different Faith or Belief to Your Own.
Conversations like this helps us realise we’re not so different to other people, regardless of appearances.
7. Vote.
Have your say on how your home country is
run. We really can’t complain if we have the democratic right to express
our views, but don’t do so.
8. Dye Your Hair a Completely Different Colour.
Or change your hairstyle. One change that can make you feel like a different person.
9. Go to a Gay / Lesbian Club or Bar.
Or join in with a Pride parade/festival. If you’re gay, you could hang out at a straight bar.
10. Let Go of a Friendship.
Not all friendships are meant to last
forever; some come into our lives and exist for different reasons at
different times in our life. Holding on to a relationship that has run
its course doesn’t do either of you any favours. Quality rather than
quantity of friends is the important factor.
11. Like Yourself.
The teen years are for exploring who you are,
what you like, and how you tick. Now its time to embrace who you are:
be proud of the unique self you have become.
12. Practice Being Charitable.
Giving is more rewarding than receiving.
Consider volunteering at a home for the elderly, or donating a
percentage of earnings to a charity that you feel is important.
Something as simple as smiling more and being more friendly to the
people in your life and strangers that you come across can make a big
difference to both you and them.
13. Let the Grudge Go.
Holding resentment does more damage to you than anyone else. Let it go. Use your energy for more healthy pursuits.
14. Go on a Blind Date.
The excitement, the worry, the unknown
outcome—who knows what may come of it? A blind date makes for a great
story to tell friends, a learning experience and maybe even a great
love.
15. Exercise.
Your body is not 18 anymore. All bodies age,
and the punishment you might have applied to it in your teens and early
twenties by excessive studying, partying, and having a chaotic lifestyle
will not be so easy to recover from as you get older.
16. Learn to Cook
Learning to cook, if you haven’t already, can
be fun, good for your health, and your bank balance. Trying new recipes
and developing a repertoire of easy, simple and healthy meals is a
great start.
17. Learn to “Be”.
The Italians have a great word; “Asolare“. It means spending time in a meaningless but delightful way. Learn to just be, rather than always doing.
18. Save for Your Retirement.
The earlier we start, the greater the amount
for your golden years. It may seem a long way off still, but the retired
you will thank you for having started by now.
19. Camp Under the Stars.
Experience the wonder of our world, with just
canvas separating you from mother nature. It puts everything back into
perspective, especially when life gets clouded by all the trappings and
complexities of the modern world.
20. Learn to Balance Your Finances.
Money can be an asset or a burden, but a lot
depends on how you manage it. A few skills in the art of balancing your
finances can have a big positive impact on your life.
21. Wake up Somewhere Unfamiliar.
Enjoy the initial confusion, followed by the
delighted feeling of having done something reckless, followed by the
reality of “how do I get home?”.
22. Eat Exotic Food.
This is even better if it has an un-prounounceable name and is experienced in another country!
23. Buy a Ridiculously Expensive Item of Clothing.
Then leave it un-worn in the back of the
closet. Keep it as an impulse buy; a reward to yourself; a “you deserve
it” item you buy but never feel okay to wear but never get rid of
because it cost so much.
24. Learn to Say No.
Learning to say “no”, is an important skill and one that can dramatically increase the quality of our lives.
25. Learn to Be Alone
Our relationship with ourselves is the most
important one of our lives; we won’t spend as much time with anyone
else! Learning to enjoy our own company and enjoy being alone is
invaluable on so many levels.
